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Joining the Trinity Family:  A Mutual Commitment

Membership is an often misunderstood term. Membership in the world around us is all about transactional relationships that can be terminated any time someone believes they are no longer getting their needs met. As one commercial used to say, “membership has its privileges.”

This is NOT what being part of a church is all about! Rather, being a part of a church is about walking together in faith. It is about mutual commitments to one another as we become more like Christ and live out His mission in the world.

So at Trinity we talk about "being a part of the Trinity family." Being a member of the family at Trinity means four specific things:

  1. You are a baptized believer in Jesus.  The foundation of our faith is the love that God has for us in Christ Jesus. We are given this faith through our baptism, and that faith is strengthened through the study of God’s Word and the gift of the Lord’s Supper. Being a part of the Trinity family means you not only acknowledge Jesus as your Lord and Savior but that you continue to grow in your relationship with Him, built on a foundation of Word and Sacrament.

  2. You embrace the Mission and Vision of Trinity  Our mission, as a church, is to help people look, live, and love more like Jesus. We believe that as we live out this mission, God will transform lives, transform our communities, and transform our world so that more and more people would experience the abundant life He offers to us through Jesus Christ.

  3. You have been taught about the “family values” here at Trinity and are willing to work towards living in those ideals in your life.  Being a part of a family means doing your best to live like a member of the family. No one is perfect and we all need to grow. But knowing the goal and committing to grow toward it is crucial to being an active member of the family. (For more on the “family values” see below.)

  4. You have signed a covenant with your site pastor that commits to growth, and you are willing to be held accountable for your commitment.  The family commits to help you as you grow, and you commit to take growth steps and let someone support, encourage, and regularly check in with you on your progress.

If you have been through an experience that confirms you are a baptized believer in Jesus, teaches you the family values, and have signed a commitment... welcome to the family!

God’s Promise to You

Living out our faith in Jesus comes with great blessing AND with its own set of challenges. The good news is that God doesn’t want you to do it alone! He wants you to experience the full and abundant life that He gives you in Christ (John 10:10).

What is the "abundant life"? 

And it is toward this end that He makes some commitments to you as well. God promises to reveal his heart and plan for you through his Word, to give you His love and grace to strengthen your faith, to empower you to live out your faith by giving you His Holy Spirit, and to equip you in every good work as you grow as a follower of Jesus.

Our Promise to You

And as your church family, we have some commitments to make to you too. We promise to be a church where God’s Word is taught faithfully, to help support and equip you to live out your faith, and to lead where God has placed you, and to wisely invest the resources that you generously give in a way that advances the mission God has given us.

Trinity’s Family Values

In response to these promises from God and Trinity, we ask everyone who wants to a part of the faith family at Trinity to grow in these values. No family is perfect, and we recognize that we are all growing. Being a part of the family means we are moving together toward these ideals:

Worship – We gather for worship weekly, whenever possible.

Weekly public worship at one of our sites is a high priority in our lives. If you can be there, you are there.

Connect – We are in small group communities.

Those in small group life are healthy, meaning they study the Word, are coached in and connected to Trinity’s mission, and meet regularly.

Serve – We serve regularly in a ministry at Trinity and in our local communities.

We seek to know our gifts and use them for the sake of others. We serve the Trinity community and our local communities either through a Trinity ministry or on our own.

Generosity – We tithe or give beyond a tithe.

Tithing is giving 10% "off the top." But being generous is about more than a minimum percentage. It means we are also open to being generous whenever and however God gives us an opportunity to do so.

Leading – We are willing to be led and to use our gifts to lead others.

Everyone needs the support, encouragement, and accountability that comes from being led. But it also means becoming a leader for the sake of serving others.

Sharing – We intentionally cultivate and have relationships with at least 2 people who are far from God.

We all have people in our lives who don’t yet follow Jesus. Committing to sharing means we are actively praying for them, inviting them to worship gathering, small group, or serving event, and approaching regular spiritual conversations with them.

Accountability - We are willing to held accountable for our own growth and leadership by others within the church family

Accountability means that we are willing to follow through on our commitments and receive support and encouragement from others to do so. It means being transparent with those in our small group communities and our leadership teams about what is going on in our lives and where we could use encouragement and support.

Taking Next Steps

If you are ready to be a part of the Trinity family, we invite you to share with us your next steps in continuing to look, live, and love more like Jesus. Contact your site pastor, Mike Curtis, and then print and sign a Trinity Family Covenant, indicating your willingness to grow in your walk with Christ. Give a copy to Pastor Mike for his commitment as well. Blessings on you and yours as you grow!

 

Connection Strategy

God’s dream for us includes connecting us with others in our own “spheres of influence” and everyday lives. To pursue this dream, we use a three-tiered strategy called “ELI” (“my God”):

     Entertain: hosting coffee, a meal or a party to specifically to socialize

     Listen: engaging opportunities to hear someone and pray for or with them for 20-30 sec. at a time

     Invite: spending time together, creating spiritual conversations and serving opportunities

 

Other Resources

Trinity offers many resources to help you look, live and love more like Jesus and to help others do the same. If you are looking for more resources, contact our equipping ministries leader Marge Franzen.

Current Series – Get information about what we are currently talking about as a church.

Take It Home – Take home devotionals centered around the current series.

Racial Reconciliation - Resources from our Racial Reconciliation series titled Them.

The Generosity Ladder - Get a good bedrock understanding of God’s view of your finances.

Podcasts – Here you will find the latest messages. Search by topics, bibles verses, or speaker.

Facebook – We’d love to connect with you on Facebook.